Talking to girls comes easy to some guys, but for others its awkward. Talking to girls is the process where you don’t expect attention or results. Girls do not like guys to pressure them. It makes them feel uncomfortable and it is intimidating and can make you seem rude or self centered.Your goal is break the ice, make her laugh and be at ease . The most important thing is that you should talk to a girl just like a normal person in a relaxed way don't be nervous, that will make a girl uneasy- The fastest way to become a girls friend is to have a funny witty easy going personality. Girls love a guy is confident and can make them laugh, At that point you looks have little or nothing to do with it Now we are not talking about your appearance, women like respectful well mannered, clean, smelling good. In the same way you like woman to be. Clean well groomed nicely dressed and smell nice.
I have seen drop dead gorgeous women with ugly men and I am not talking about a older sugar daddy type with a young sugar baby, I often wondered wondered, how did that homely guy get such a beautiful hot chic? Simple He keeps her laughing, he is all those thing mentioned going for him ,and yes maybe has a good job or income. These simple everyday things are just tools successful men use.They are free so acquire them, practice them, use them. Girls love witty confident men and it doesn't hurt to have a little money or a job.For women this is security ,entertainment, friendship, and yes eventually into the bedroom. They want sex just as much or more than you do and that's a fact!
You first want to engage in small talk. Ask her where she works where she went to school or If she is in school- if so don't dwell on the subject move on. If she is working, ask her what she does for work Does she like her job? Then you can kind of branch the conversation off from there. You don’t want to go from topic to topic like the conversation is jumping around. The conversation should easily flow. If the conversation seems to be jumping around from topic She will think you have attention deficit disorder ADD and if you are that's OK. Always remember Girls like men with a sense of humor and can make her laugh. Don't try to hard, think about what your going to say before you say it, say it to yourself in your mind first and often you will find your glad you did not say that or blurt it out.Choose you words before you talk to be a funny guy or a comedian. Girls don't like jokes like men do therefore leave the joke book for the guys your buddy's not the women not at least until she is feeling comfortable with you women- they just don't get it the same way men do. No degrading jokes!
Ask her if she is single if she says yes your 60 percent there. If she say sorry, No I have a boyfriend you might say something like, He is a lucky guy. She will get the hint. Now when she says yes I am single that's when you know she might have an interest in you.
Compliment her you can say things like "Wow,Your very beautiful", I love your dress, nice jeans nice outfit. you have a nice smile. Don't over compliment her one or two compliments that's it. to many compliments makes you look desperate or trying to much. Don't act desperate
Look her in the eye. For some guys the more attractive she is the harder it is to keep eye contact. Lock on to her eyes and DO NOT stare her down. Its called eye flirting she sees you you see her eye to eye 4 or 5 seconds go by that's it smile and break away your eye contact. You can do it again in couple minutes. If you can get this going on you 75% there. At this point she will be watching how you interact with others, what people talk to you about, how you talk to them, how you handle yourself in certain situations.
Remember CCC Be Cool Calm Collected. DO NOT let her see you get upset even if reason is your protecting or standing up for her in some situation,Don't be an emotional fool. If that happens forget about it- you fucked it up.
Girls do not like guy who can not control their thoughts or their anger. Competition is stiff when it come to the really beautiful women. So polite ,friendly courteous, humorous but not a clown. and serve up a couple compliments but don't go overboard. The best compliment is "you are absolutely beautiful"
When the conversation is going good Ask her by her name- say her name, Can I get your number? I would really like to talk to you or maybe shoot you a text sometime, pull you're phone out and be ready to input her number. Ask her in a very sweet nice manner nine time out of ten you will get her number. Ask her when is the best time to call or or "should I text you first"
Don't ever interrupt her when she is talking, girls love to talk be interested look her in the eyes when she is talking listen close and get into her telling you about herself what ever it is, no matter how stupid or boring the conversation. If you ignore her or if you get impatient or rude, you will blow it! Always be a gentleman shivery will get you everywhere. like in bed with her perhaps. Remember to be patient you will know soon enough if your going to score or not so relax don't rush. Talking to a girls is not really as hard as you think. Just be yourself use some good old fashion horse sense and things will go fine. Don't try and be something you’re not just to impress a girl.Girls love eye contact and always remember to smile REMEMBER their name and use it when you talk to her. Now get out there and start talking to girls. Practice-practice-practice, Start by calling one now- you will find one in your area! Dial1-800-471-TALK beautiful girls. She will tell you just what and how to get laid with out spending a dime! No Credit Card Required, Discrete private billing